tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19211835.post6613288521928386643..comments2023-10-22T06:32:58.904-04:00Comments on Just Write Now! with Sharon: When Happiness (or what looks like it) Is Not Worth What It Costs....Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19211835.post-73420744813938339452008-08-19T19:09:00.000-04:002008-08-19T19:09:00.000-04:00u are so right, i have been through the same thing...u are so right, i have been through the same thing that you described and then i made the decision to be by myself<BR/><BR/>cause my happiness should not be sacraficed. two years i have spent by myself and though i am lonely, i am happy!!!<BR/><BR/>so i know sooner or later i will meet the one who is meant for me!!<BR/><BR/>thanks for this post,mamiThe Dreamy Onehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08154871272162365338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19211835.post-66018226658195200312008-08-19T14:02:00.000-04:002008-08-19T14:02:00.000-04:00How I love your write-ups...YOu truly speak your m...How I love your write-ups...YOu truly speak your mind and leave no room for curiousity. Thanks for your words because you share similarities as me, and the name..lol<BR/><BR/>So I always look forward in reading you, take care!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19211835.post-60675867025065654872008-08-19T13:53:00.000-04:002008-08-19T13:53:00.000-04:00That's truly a message for all of us. I remember ...That's truly a message for all of us. I remember about six years ago, when I didn't bother to make sure what I was giving up (dignity, pride, self-respect) was worth the price. I call it my "season of insanity" because for 5 months I was certifiably insanse. We all go through it and trust me ... we ALL recover and go on to make smarter choices.chelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15468273174800571759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19211835.post-85017084113520318262008-08-19T08:51:00.000-04:002008-08-19T08:51:00.000-04:00Are you talking to me? You must be talking to me!A...Are you talking to me? You must be talking to me!<BR/><BR/>Arrgghhh! This is so what I know. I have been doing htis very same thinking. I am doing this thinking as I contemplate getting out into the world of dating and sex. I know what I want...how long am I prepared to wiat. And WHAT AM I PREPARED TO PAY? What am I willing to anty up for love and happiness.<BR/><BR/>EVERYTHING! EVERYTHING! I don't care about being hurt again. I am not worrying about that. I chasing down happiness and joy and love. I am running full speed. This is anew year. A new time.<BR/><BR/>A year makes a huge difference...trust me on that. Girl we are not scared women...we love big and we live large!<BR/><BR/>We are FEARLESS!Babz Rawls Ivyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04059921674059371076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19211835.post-86311310343440320392008-08-19T08:03:00.000-04:002008-08-19T08:03:00.000-04:00Great post as always, Oldgirl...You leave for a sp...Great post as always, Oldgirl...<BR/><BR/>You leave for a spell, then you come back with a post that blows me away... <BR/><BR/>I love this:<BR/><BR/><I>"Everything costs you something....just make sure it is worth the price!!!</I><BR/><BR/>Yes it will cost us something. Hopefully it will cost the loss of some negative attitudes in our lives, like the selfishness that we all have (to various degrees)... But when it costs us our self-worth, self esteem, and self love, well, that's just too high a price to pay. Much too high. And we as women pay that price everyday, just for the sake of fleeting happiness. sigh.<BR/><BR/>I think the issha that comes up is this: We all have a standard by which we feel loved. We have to make a decision whether it is worth it to stay in a situation that is below our standard or not. The decision is obvious, but the emotional and spiritual bonds we have to that man makes our decisions all muddled and slow to gel in the right direction... Eventually it will be over, as we as strong women will not deal with anything that will decrease us... <BR/><BR/>But the pain of letting go, well, it is pain indeed. <BR/><BR/>Here's to your healing, girl... And here's to you finding someone who will respect your worth...and bring more happiness and contentment.LadyLeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14895667783148669410noreply@blogger.com